for the post, for defending the boys... it's so very true, you have to know the boys to appreciate them, and yes they might have come accross arrogant, but, that's peoples mindset, they were having fun and being boys.. at the end of the day they did what they had to do and they also proved that they struggled on the condition not one of them ended up scratch....
so thank you for sticking up for them... i'm kinda hurt, coz i know my joshi is not anything that they are implying.....
take care
jeanine